The pampered boy's MOTHER
Everyone who know me knows that I am a very pampered child indeed, I want to give whole credit to my mother. Yes, she is responsible for that. I'll proudly and profoundly say that, she made me the most self-obsessed, self-appreciating, lil arrogant (you can call it introvert) and what not.
But let me tell you this very frankly that, every boy is pampered by his mother because do not why we boys always have this connect with our mother, its much less for our father. There might be some reasons for this, that may be because we think our mothers are tooo delicate and less stronger than our fathers. Another reason could be that our mother always love us more than our fathers. But this is not the reason I personally think. Mothers are beautiful, they are born to be loved, they deserve every drop of our love, they deserve our time, they demand our love, they want to be loved by their sons, they are strong and we are weak. Without our mother we are as week as a bird without its wings.
Yes we love our mother because we cannot survive in this cruel world all alone, a world which is full of negativity, full of selfishness and full of cruelty. Women have the strength to tackle and take charge against every bad but we men are weak. We need a woman to stand by ourselves and who else then someone who can give every ounce of their blood and sweat for her child. I assume that's why, "Mothers" are guided as "Knight in the Shinning Armor". At least my mother is indeed my "Knight in the Shinning Armor".
We came across various women in our life in the name of mother, daughter, sister and whatever, all these relation are touted as the purest of all. Reason being they carry a feeling of motherhood in them. I don't have a sister which I wish I had, but I have the best mom(my moti bhes) in the world. And my fav song is here.
We often fight with our mother and some shout on them. I did couple of times myself when I was angry and because I do not want to share some things with her and she wants to know. I never understood earlier why she kept on doing that, why she take all wrong from their children and still going strong and love them with all purity. But now I know why because they know why we were doing that, we used to do that because we don't want to trouble them. See knew all along. They always know how much we love them but we don't show that everyday like we used to our "crushes/bae/whatever".
Why stop, why not spending time with her?? Believe me she really needs it, she would enjoy it. There were days when I used to sit all alone in my room and devoting all my time towards my work and fun without even asking her how is she doing, how her health is? But now when is not in the house, I am waiting for her to come back like now. I am missing her like everything. I used to work knowing that shez there but no giving her the time she desired. Now when she is not here i want to be with her 24*7. I can spend hours talking to her, lying in her lap for hours without doing anything.
Now when she'll be back i'll try to give most possible time to her, all possible attention to her, try to take out time for her. I'll ask her how she is feeling, how was her day, how is she doing, what i can do for her, i'll do everything she wants. Its been 3 days without her and i am scratching walls. I haven't spend more than a day without her and its been 3 days my god. Waiting for her with all heart, video calls aren't enough, videos aren't enough.
If you are reading this abhi tak then make sure you take out atleast 2 3 hours daily for her, sit by her side, talk to her, love her. occasionally leave your room and sleep with your parents. I my last blog i said we love mother but give no attention to father. So please give them equal love. Always remember if your father is your heart then your mother is your soul. Make sure you take out time for them, spend more and more time with them. They'll fell good and in a way we'll feel good.
But let me tell you this very frankly that, every boy is pampered by his mother because do not why we boys always have this connect with our mother, its much less for our father. There might be some reasons for this, that may be because we think our mothers are tooo delicate and less stronger than our fathers. Another reason could be that our mother always love us more than our fathers. But this is not the reason I personally think. Mothers are beautiful, they are born to be loved, they deserve every drop of our love, they deserve our time, they demand our love, they want to be loved by their sons, they are strong and we are weak. Without our mother we are as week as a bird without its wings.
Yes we love our mother because we cannot survive in this cruel world all alone, a world which is full of negativity, full of selfishness and full of cruelty. Women have the strength to tackle and take charge against every bad but we men are weak. We need a woman to stand by ourselves and who else then someone who can give every ounce of their blood and sweat for her child. I assume that's why, "Mothers" are guided as "Knight in the Shinning Armor". At least my mother is indeed my "Knight in the Shinning Armor".
We came across various women in our life in the name of mother, daughter, sister and whatever, all these relation are touted as the purest of all. Reason being they carry a feeling of motherhood in them. I don't have a sister which I wish I had, but I have the best mom(my moti bhes) in the world. And my fav song is here.
More than this song, I would love to share this amazing one, though it is from a daughter's point of view but ma is ma for son or daughter:Lori suna fir se
Muje neend nahi aati hai
Badaa hua hu maggar
Bachhpan kahhi baaki hai
Lori suna fir se
Muje neend nahi aati hai
Badaa hua hu maggar
Bachhpan kahhi baaki hai
Jo sukkunn miltaa
Tere aanchal me
Na kahhi milta duniya mey
Kaash so jaau
Sote hi reh jaau
Hai thakkaan kitni
akkhiyo me
Duniya to kitna staati hai maa
vo barish me gum
ki bhigaati hai maa
Tu to khudd bheeg jaaye
sukkhe me sulaati hai
Lori suna fir se
Muje neend nahi aati hai
Badaa hua hu maggar
Bachhpan kahhi baaki hai
Dard dil ke kyuu
Apne chupaati hai
Tu chupa mujko
anchal me
Haal haffto se
Puccha nahi tera
Dekkh kitna hu paagal mai
Kyuu zakkham kisi
ko dikhaaye nahi
Kyu ye kisi ko bataaye nahi
Kyu tu sabko khilaa bin
khaaye so jaati hai
Lori suna fir se
Muje neend nahi aati hai
Badaa hua hu maggar
Bachhpan kahhi baaki hai
Chaar din ki kyu
Ye zindgaani hai
Mujko shikkayat ye
Khuda se hai
Ek maati ke putle hum saare hai
Kuch paas rehte kuchh judaa se hai
Chup-chap gaye wo bataaya nahi
Par tu jaaye to humse chupaana nahi
Maa tu bin bataaye
akksar challi jaati hai
Lori suna fir se
Muje neend nahi aati hai
Badaa hua hu maggar
Bachhpan kahhi baaki hai
We often fight with our mother and some shout on them. I did couple of times myself when I was angry and because I do not want to share some things with her and she wants to know. I never understood earlier why she kept on doing that, why she take all wrong from their children and still going strong and love them with all purity. But now I know why because they know why we were doing that, we used to do that because we don't want to trouble them. See knew all along. They always know how much we love them but we don't show that everyday like we used to our "crushes/bae/whatever".
Why stop, why not spending time with her?? Believe me she really needs it, she would enjoy it. There were days when I used to sit all alone in my room and devoting all my time towards my work and fun without even asking her how is she doing, how her health is? But now when is not in the house, I am waiting for her to come back like now. I am missing her like everything. I used to work knowing that shez there but no giving her the time she desired. Now when she is not here i want to be with her 24*7. I can spend hours talking to her, lying in her lap for hours without doing anything.
Now when she'll be back i'll try to give most possible time to her, all possible attention to her, try to take out time for her. I'll ask her how she is feeling, how was her day, how is she doing, what i can do for her, i'll do everything she wants. Its been 3 days without her and i am scratching walls. I haven't spend more than a day without her and its been 3 days my god. Waiting for her with all heart, video calls aren't enough, videos aren't enough.
If you are reading this abhi tak then make sure you take out atleast 2 3 hours daily for her, sit by her side, talk to her, love her. occasionally leave your room and sleep with your parents. I my last blog i said we love mother but give no attention to father. So please give them equal love. Always remember if your father is your heart then your mother is your soul. Make sure you take out time for them, spend more and more time with them. They'll fell good and in a way we'll feel good.
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